Macha Femmes

She teetered on five inch heels, drunk on whiskey and macho femme bravado. The cement floor of the bar’s basement was cold and my knees began to ache. The quickness of my breath and the loud drumming of my heart made the dull pain in my knees seem distant. She pulled my hair tightly and pulled my face close to her painted mouth. I smelled the sweat of her neck, the soft perfume of her hair. My pussy ached and the warmth spread through the folds of my lips the same way it did in my chest when I drank the good whiskey she poured for me from her tiny silver flask.

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Understanding The World Of Professional Kink

Sexual play involving pain and power dynamics have been documented since the third and fourth centuries and the practice has many names including bondage and discipline and sadism and masochism (BDSM), domination and submission (D/s), sadism and masochism (SM), fetish or kink. BDSM and fetish professionals may play the role of a dominant, submissive or switch (a person who plays both roles). Both men and women (including transgender men and women) may work as professional dominants, submissives or switches. Within the industry professional dominants are often referred to as “pro doms” which can include men (Masters) or women (Mistresses). Respectively, professional submissives and switches are referred to as either “pro subs” or “pro switches”

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FTW (Fucking Trans Women) Zine

My friend Mira Bellwether has started an incredible new project called “Fully Functional (Formerly known as “Fucking Trans Women”). Read below to find out about this AMAZING project and how you can become a part of it.

“Fully Functional: A Zine About Fucking Trans Women”

…is a collaborative DIY (Doin’ It Yourself) zine about the sex lives of trans women. It is designed to help trans women and our lovers share information about how we have good sex and what we do when we have sex that works.

The project of Fully Functional is to create an open-ended community resource for trans women and our lovers interested in sharing information about sex and our sex lives. Published as a digital zine and, beginning with issue #1, a print zine, “Fully Functional” is designed to be an accessible medium for communicating and sharing information with each other. It is the first and only sex zine dedicated exclusively to the sex lives of trans women and our lovers, and most basically begins with the question “How?”, as in, “how do I have amazing, fulfilling, passionate, hot, toe-curling sex?” Contributors are invited to discuss the ins and outs of their own sex lives, with no one answer privileged over another. There are as many answers to the question “how do I have good sex?” as there are contributors, and with that in mind “Fully Functional” has been designed as a sort of community cookbook . Our zine is a community resource for sharing our knowledge, discoveries, and practices with one another and our lovers.

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Class Shame vs Eco Chic and The Conundrums of Being A Hippie Dominatrix

Sustainability is very important to me; I learned a lot about living a sustainable lifestyle during the years I spent living in an environmentalist co-op. Most of the people who lived there came from white middle class backgrounds and had no problem jumping in a dumpster to forage for goodies that were headed for a landfill. But it’s a lot different if you grew up poor and grew up with the social stigma of poverty.

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“Love and Lust: A Sex Journal” By Susie Bright Invites Women To Celebrate (And Plan) Their Sexual Journeys

Susie Brights newest book “Love and Lust: A Sex Journal” is smart fun poppy game of a book that invites women to celebrate their sexual journey.

“Love and Lust: A Sex Journal” By Susie Bright
“Love and Lust: A Sex Journal” By Susie Bright

Bright invites diarists to reflect on where they’ve been and challenges us to chart the fantastical territories we lust to explore.

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